Our SOS Divorce service is an emergency first stop for anyone who has just received a notice of separation or divorce, a lawyer‑drafted separation agreement, a letter indicating the start of divorce proceedings, or news of a Family Claim, and suddenly feels lost, unprepared, or unable to afford immediate legal representation. This service was created for individuals who are overwhelmed and unsure of their next steps.

What This Consultation Provides:
This consultation is designed to educate British Columbians about the separation and divorce process in our province, including:

The judicial process and what to expect

Available public and private resources

All resolution pathways, mediation, negotiation, collaborative law, litigation

The pros and cons of each option

But it goes far beyond education. This is also a strategic, mindful assessment of your unique situation. We analyze the conflict from every angle, family dynamics, financial realities, emotional well‑being, and mental readiness, to provide a clear, grounded opinion on your next steps. You will receive guidance on whether:

You are in a position to represent yourself

Your case is too complex and requires immediate legal intervention

A lawyer can be hired on a limited‑scope (bundle) basis

A collaborative lawyer is more appropriate

You should seek public or private services

You may benefit from professionals within the Mindful Negotiators network

Why This Service Matters: Starting a divorce without direction can lead to costly mistakes, unnecessary conflict, and emotional overwhelm. This consultation offers clarity, strategy, and peace of mind at a moment when you need it most.

For anyone at the very beginning of a separation or divorce, and unsure what to do next, this service is essential.